I'm THAT Mom.
You know when you fall in love for the first time and NO matter how hard you try to think about OR focus on anything other than the object of your desire it's just NOT possible??
Yeah well, ever since becoming a Mom that is exactly what has happened to me!!
Simply put... I'm in love.
If I were to elaborate, I would say MADLY in LOVE.
Yeah well, ever since becoming a Mom that is exactly what has happened to me!!
Simply put... I'm in love.
If I were to elaborate, I would say MADLY in LOVE.
If I could, I would spend the entire day (EVERY day) just like this:
The realization that one little being could go from this (at 3 weeks old):
To this (at twelve weeks old):
is reason enough to make me want to make time stand still!!
It's crazy and it's amazing and NO ONE could have ever prepared me for the fact that this one little girl could bring us so much LOVE.
She's a reality check and she also has the ability to bring one smack into the present moment of life.
For the first time in many years, I don't find myself worrying about whether or not I will achieve all my goals or reach my "destination" in life. It's not that I have thrown in the towel and swapped out all my dreams for Katie, rather that Katie, has helped me step out of the fears and anxieties that can build up in my brain for the peace and trust that only the present moment can hold. She's bringing me back to the journey.
I'm actually starting to accept the fact that I can't print out directions for my life on Map Quest and that maybe, just maybe, stepping into and accepting the uncertainty of life might not be so scary after all. I think there's something shifting inside me.
And I think it's fair to say that this lady has something to do with it:
SO instead of worrying about posting a recipe that I don't feel like posting right now OR stressing about something that I think I should do BUT don't really want to do, I'm gonna honor the moment that I am in! And this moment is Kate-a-licious.
*fair warning*
I am about to be THAT Mom.
You know the one. The one that goes on and on about how cute, brilliant, and wonderful her baby is and then proceeds to bombard you with pictures to prove it. I'm about to be the Mom that makes you want to throw up all over yourself and then perhaps a little more on me and my self-proclaimed ADORABLE baby.
Yes, my friends that's what I'm about to do SO don't say I didn't warn you. enjoy.
Okay seriously. How cute is that smile?
Katie looking fabulous in her pink tank (don't you think?).
Sleepy baby - Sleepy Daddy (my two favorite people).
And finally... showing off her winter storage units.
Okay. I'm done.
I think I got it out of my system.
I'm just thinking that if Katie could have given you 1/1000 of the joy and happiness that she gives me everyday then I've done my part in helping you get one step closer towards achieving optimal health and wellness today;).
To this (at twelve weeks old): is reason enough to make me want to make time stand still!!It's crazy and it's amazing and NO ONE could have ever prepared me for the fact that this one little girl could bring us so much LOVE.
She's a reality check and she also has the ability to bring one smack into the present moment of life.
For the first time in many years, I don't find myself worrying about whether or not I will achieve all my goals or reach my "destination" in life. It's not that I have thrown in the towel and swapped out all my dreams for Katie, rather that Katie, has helped me step out of the fears and anxieties that can build up in my brain for the peace and trust that only the present moment can hold. She's bringing me back to the journey.
I'm actually starting to accept the fact that I can't print out directions for my life on Map Quest and that maybe, just maybe, stepping into and accepting the uncertainty of life might not be so scary after all. I think there's something shifting inside me.
And I think it's fair to say that this lady has something to do with it:
SO instead of worrying about posting a recipe that I don't feel like posting right now OR stressing about something that I think I should do BUT don't really want to do, I'm gonna honor the moment that I am in! And this moment is Kate-a-licious.*fair warning*
I am about to be THAT Mom.
You know the one. The one that goes on and on about how cute, brilliant, and wonderful her baby is and then proceeds to bombard you with pictures to prove it. I'm about to be the Mom that makes you want to throw up all over yourself and then perhaps a little more on me and my self-proclaimed ADORABLE baby.
Yes, my friends that's what I'm about to do SO don't say I didn't warn you. enjoy.
Okay seriously. How cute is that smile?
Katie looking fabulous in her pink tank (don't you think?).Sleepy baby - Sleepy Daddy (my two favorite people). Just chillin' on her playmat.
And finally... showing off her winter storage units.
Okay. I'm done. I think I got it out of my system.
I'm just thinking that if Katie could have given you 1/1000 of the joy and happiness that she gives me everyday then I've done my part in helping you get one step closer towards achieving optimal health and wellness today;).
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Priyanka :
Beautiful!!The picture of you and Katie speaks volume!!!
And how cute are those chubby cheeks!!!
posted on September 29, 2009 5:59 PM
Shannon :
Thanks for sharing! That is one cutie-patootie :) sounds like she is sending the right message, and we should all listen!!
posted on September 29, 2009 6:14 PM
Jade :
Thanks for sharing. My son goes to college this September. Your pictures brought back the moments....it seemed only yesterday I breast fed him in my arms. We all are, once become a mother, we become madly in love and it's unconditional love that is sooooo different from the love for other people in the world. And we become stronger, too.
posted on September 30, 2009 2:26 AM
amy Esacove :
Dani!!! Thanks for these photos and your sweet words. I can only imagine what you are going through. All my love to you and i am, indeed, moving to Texas after all. i will still love all of your posts and look forward to more. xoxo
posted on September 30, 2009 2:43 AM
Umber :
WOW!....these pictures are beautiful and worth all the AWW that they evoke.....congrats! and wishing all many years of good health!
posted on September 30, 2009 3:24 AM
Cate :
She is so beautiful and precious! I don't think there is anything wrong with being THAT mom; you should show off your pride and joy. And I agree with you: a child puts everything into perspective. Thanks for sharing!
posted on September 30, 2009 3:30 AM
Christine :
Awwww, how utterly adorable. Take the time and enjoy her -- the right path is found by following your heart!
posted on September 30, 2009 4:04 AM
Kathy :
You are so right. Enjoy her and live in the now!
posted on September 30, 2009 4:09 AM
Denise :
There's nothing more precious than mothers who are "THAT mom". My daughter is 16 now and she's still the highlight of my life! So, you take your time & enjoy ALL of these moments with your beautiful baby girl (because they seem to fly by)! What an awesome time you're having being a mom--there's nothing better in this world!
posted on September 30, 2009 5:18 AM
Ricki :
She is TOO CUTE. Thanks for the smiles (hers, and mine!). :)
posted on September 30, 2009 5:58 AM
Gretchen :
I went through similar dropping of cares with my son who is now 4 1/2. I was a performing folk musician and decided that the stress that went with it and the time it took away from my baby were too much. I went on Hiatus. Someday I will play out again, but for now I have no regrets.
Thanks for sharing all the pics of Katie~
posted on September 30, 2009 6:05 AM
Hadas :
Dani, Please no threats!!! lol. Are you kidding me? I got tired of getting one photo at a time (a total of two). Now we are talking. I can't wait to see a video of Katie. I love your recipes, but don't blame you one bit for not wanting to write them right now. I don't know how you can stand it, having such an adorable, eatable baby. She is beautiful. Please keep he pictures and stories (and hopefully videos) coming. Enjoy!!!
posted on September 30, 2009 7:20 AM
Dani :
Priyanka - I love those cheeks!
Shannon - It is a good message, isn't it. I think it's called baby wisdom;).
Jade - College?! I can't even think about it... crazy!!
Amy - Lots of luck with everything! xo.
Umber, Cate, Christine, Kathy - Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
Denise - I am having an awesome time. It's the best!
Ricki -So glad we could share some smiles!
Gretchen - Hiatus sounds good to me;).
Hadas - I promise to share more pictures, stories and eventually videos too!
posted on September 30, 2009 8:27 AM
Paula :
Hi Dani,
What a wonderful message you sent to all who visit your site! I love it when gals (new Mom's) come to the realization that nothing is more important than their new little bundle of joy!
I always told my children when they had their 1st child that their lives would be forever changed from that moment on. It is called unconditional love that remains throughout all times. You must remember also as precious Katie, grows you too will learn a great deal from her....LISTEN!
P.S...I am proud to say I am still "That Mom" & my oldest just turned 40 this year. Also proud to say I am now enjoying being that "That Grandmother" equally as much. They all bring us great joy!
posted on September 30, 2009 8:58 AM
Donata Robinson :
I am so happy for you! My husband and I have been married for 17 years and are unable to have children. I can't tell you how special your daughter is no matter how I try. She is as pretty as you are and a true gift. I send a special blessing for you and your lovely family of health hope and happiness. I have been a fan of Dani Spies and your website for a long time now. I do miss your recipes and hope she can also inspire you to cook again. Donata
posted on September 30, 2009 8:59 AM
Marcia :
Dani! I can so totally relate to being THAT mom! LOL She is absolutely adorable! and Thank goodness we can see more than just one pic this time! Being a mom changes the inner most part of you from being just Dani to Mommy! you are one little persons whole LIFE right now! It's amazing isn't it? Thanks for sharing with us. I totally needed that mid afternoon pick me up! =))
posted on September 30, 2009 11:33 AM
Ray :
OMG what a beautiful little girl. My youngest is 20 now I feel old.
posted on September 30, 2009 11:56 AM
Karen D. :
What a beautiful baby! Makes me remember those days with my three little ones. Enjoy every moment. It goes by so fast. Take TONS of pictures and movies and write down all the things that make her special - all the little things that are so HER right now. They change so fast.
posted on September 30, 2009 1:32 PM
Chrissy :
Wow what a beautiful baby Katie is !! Love the photos!!
The pics of hubby and you with Katie are priceless!
posted on September 30, 2009 2:55 PM
Leilani :
Dani,
Reading your blog actually brought tears to my eyes! I can identify with every word you wrote as if I wrote them myself - (except of course for posting a recipe) :] I have a soon to be 18 year old and a 2 year old (imagine that) :] - and it seems just like yesterday I was holding the older one in my arms - it is like I am starting all over and I love it! Your beautiful, your baby is adorable and we are so very blessed! Never stop being "that mom"! Keep the wonderful pics coming anytime.
Take care,
Leilani
posted on September 30, 2009 4:10 PM
Christine :
She is adorable! And, the love you speak of touching... wonderful choices you're making... Kate-a-licious ~ Blessings and Joy to your lovely family!
posted on September 30, 2009 5:04 PM
Cyndi :
Perfect!
Just love the pictures so so much. My baby is in college now but honestly I can remember it like it was just now. Just wait and you will know what I mean.
But in the meantime - ENJOY IT ALL AND I MEAN EVERY LITTLE THING!
posted on September 30, 2009 8:10 PM
Debbie :
She is absolutely adorable. It is amazing how these small beings can turn your world up side down (in a good way). I am now a grandma and I have to tell you it only gets better. My little one
is the centre of my life. To think that I have a grown up wonderful daughter who is also a mama, makes me proud.
Enjoy every moment it goes by too quickly.
posted on October 1, 2009 7:24 AM
Estella :
She's a beautiful baby. My son is 25 years old now and I treasure all the moments of his growing up years. His first two years of life were just amazing to me, I still recall catching his first smile as he lay in his crib sleeping. You are so lucky to be at this point in your life when she's still a baby; unfortunately the years go by way too quickly and we have to let go and let our children grow up and become independent. But the memories last for a lifetime and I look forward to grandchildren some day. Enjoy, enjoy, enjoy - these days of having a young family.
posted on October 1, 2009 8:50 AM
Rich Palermo :
The beautiful b&w picture has me hankering for a burrito. Hope that's the next recipe!
posted on October 1, 2009 2:46 PM
Karen :
She is gorgeous and looks so much like her Mamma!! Thank you for sharing the wisdom. My girls are turning 4 and 5 next month and I don't know where the time has gone.
Ps...they're still asking for the 'Leprechan' oatmeal!! I think since you helped me get my girls to eat spinach, you DESERVE a day off!
posted on October 5, 2009 12:48 PM
Rebecca Miller :
I clicked on your blog from my favorites to see what you have been cooking lately and saw her sweet face. I read your excerpt and feel less frustrated with my own kids now almost 13 and 7. It would been nice if time could stand still enjoy this time it does go by fast. She is very beautiful.
Rebecca
posted on October 5, 2009 2:27 PM
shelby :
She's very beautiful she looks just like you.
posted on October 7, 2009 2:22 PM