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Why Weight? Diets Don't Work!!

You can’t turn on the TV, drive down the road or go to a party without being confronted with America’s hottest obsession: WEIGHT! Diets are a billion-dollar industry; companies spend millions and millions of dollars luring you to try the latest diet (low carb, high protein, low fat, no fat, you name it!) with promises that this will (finally!) be the solution—your shortcut to a thinner body. Advertising efforts also deeply affect children, who develop distorted body images and are often on diets as early as nine or ten years of age.  I can remember my first diet when I was in fifth grade (however old that makes you!).

Our culture touts diet pills, celebrity workouts, convenience foods, and trendy diets to help us achieve our desired weight, but these quick fix solutions have backfired. America’s populace has reached its highest weight in history. About half of Americans are overweight; one third are obese. Diets steer us away from our common sense and dip deeply into our pocketbooks while eliciting few, if any, lasting results.

Diets don’t work because each person is unique, with different needs based on gender, age, ancestry and lifestyle; how could one diet be right for everyone? Diets don’t work because they are extreme solutions. As in physics, if a pendulum swings to one extreme, it has to swing equally to the other. A diet might work for a short amount of time, but research shows that almost all diets result in a 10-pound gain once off the diet. Diets don’t work because they are too restrictive. People who fail on diet plans are not flawed and weak. Diets by nature require discipline and restriction whereas healthy eating is rooted in variety and abundance!

Most people are disconnected from why they gain weight, and see diet as the only culprit.
For example, ignoring or discounting emotions is often the first thing to cause weight imbalances. In our fast paced world, we have lost sight of many aspects of life that truly nourish and balance our bodies, such as slowing down, eating a home-cooked meal, spending quality time with loving people, and having fun! Eating consciously and making simple lifestyle changes will create positive results and release you from the endless cycle of dieting.

Balance and a sustainable weight are your body’s natural state. Given half a chance, your body will balance out by itself, but this is only possible by getting out of the diet mentality and listening to what you truly need. Imagine taking all of the outward energy you expend on diets, fads and gimmicks and turning it inward, so that you can listen to your heart and inner wisdom. There is no such thing as a quick fix; you already have everything you need within you. With careful thought and loving reflection, you can feed yourself wisely and purposefully and be completely nourished. Working with your body rather than against it will bring about increased energy, stabilized weight and abundant health!

Here's to Eating Well and Feeling Great!! 

Comments

valeria :

Dani I definitly agree with you. I'm reading a book titled "losing weight without diets" where basically says what you've just said. It's something that has to do with your balance inside.
A few months ago I was on a diet because of my skin problems, and my meals where all tofu with boiled veggies. well believe it or not , in the first week I gained 3 kilos ( don't remember how many pounds that is ). So I was really mad and disappointed. One day I found out your blog and I tried some of your recipes. well, I lost weight. And it was so weird 'cause I was eating mayo and yogurt and mustard which where off limits for me.
I think that happened 'cause I love cooking and eating boiled stuff and tofu every day was a sort of cutting off my arms ( do you know what I mean? sorry I don't always find the right words in english!). I began feeling great again and totally happy with myself and my body. And the funny thing is that now I'm kind of allergic to soy !
I don't like the word diet, has a really sad connotation. I prefer lifestyle, which is what my husband and I decided to change to feel good. We don't eat meat and we have enough energy to go on with the ice-cream parlour that in this season is really hard to go on with. But food is the best medicine together with a huge love and respect for yourself. And when people say that we are weird 'cause we eat organic and strange stuff I just smile 'cause I learned not to care of what people think of you as long as you are comfortable with your lifestyle.
Last thing, you are right on is about kids. a lot of young girls ( but sometimes even boys) around 10 or 11 come in the shop and ask for an icecream without sugar or milk 'cause they are on a diet. but they are not fat at all. It's really a wrong image that tv and medias give of body and these are the results. Very sad.
Thank you again for your blog : it is really very inspiring!

Valeria - Lifestyle! That really is the key. I know for myself whenever I start to think diet, I always end up achieving the opposite of my goals. Diet does have a negative connotation and eating well is really all about balance and abundance!! Thanks for taking the time to share you thoughts:).

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